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Abuela Rosa

1941 – 2019

Abuela Rosa filled every November with mole, laughter and marigold petals. Even when dinner burned, she began again and fed everyone at midnight. She sang a little off key, kept her recipes in a red notebook measured in 'until it smells like Sunday', and lit the way home for the people she loved. Tonight a trail of petals leads to her door, and pan de muerto waits on the table.

🍲 pan de muerto🍲 champurrado🍲 mole poblano🎵 Cielito Lindo🌺 cempasúchil (marigolds)
The night the mole burned

Every November she made mole for forty relatives. One year she forgot the chocolate on the stove and the whole street smelled burnt. She laughed so hard she cried, then started again from scratch and fed everyone at midnight.

Marigold petals to the door

She always scattered marigold petals from the garden gate to the front door so the spirits would find their way home. She said the smell was a map only the dead could read.

Singing over the comal

While she patted tortillas she sang Cielito Lindo, always a little off key, and made the grandchildren sing the chorus back to her. Whoever got the words wrong had to flip the next tortilla.

The red notebook

She kept every recipe in a red notebook stained with oil and cinnamon. She never wrote down the amounts, only little notes like 'until it smells like Sunday'. Her granddaughter still cooks from it and still cannot get the mole quite right.